Beautiful jewellery for brides, bridesmaids and wedding guests

Annabel Harrison

28 April 2021

From brand new to vintage, borrowed to bedazzled; whether you’re the bride, bridesmaid, mother of the bride or a guest, read on to get jewellery inspiration

28 April 2021 | Annabel Harrison

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 Approximately 220,000 weddings were postponed in the UK in 2020, equating to thousands of beautiful brides, nervous grooms, best-friend bridesmaids, best-mate ushers, starry-eyed mums and misty-eyed dads, plus millions of guests, who didn’t get the chance to dress up in their finest attire to celebrate the love of those they love.

Well, wait no longer to unearth your finery from wherever it has been languishing (behind stacks of loungewear and Lululemon leggings?) and work out what you need to complete your outfit. Hamish Shephard, founder of wedding planning app Bridebook.co.uk, is predicting that more than a million people will get married in the next 15 months. "There's never been a time like this and we know that we’re right around the corner from the greatest year in wedding history! We’ve heard from venues and suppliers who are booked up Monday to Sunday, so party central is well and truly on the way.

Brooch, £275, Swarovski at susancaplan.co.uk

Excitement is building about being dressed to the nines for these celebrations too. Coco Chanel famously, and wisely, advised us all: “Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one thing off”. At Luxury London we've found this advice particularly helpful in redressing the balance after our 'more-is-surely-more' teenage years. Jewellery is the icing on the cake for every outfit, whether you’re the bride or not, but don’t be tempted to add every kind of sparkle; pare it back and make one item you really love the centre of attention.

Earrings, £11,500, kiki.co.uk 

Something old: The only way is vintage

One of the best things you can do for the planet is buying pre-loved everything and it just so happens that the world’s pre-loved jewellery box is a treasure trove of unusual and sometimes entirely unique finds. Susan Caplan is the place to start. Its founder honed her skills in antiques, having been brought up by passionate antique collectors with stores in Camden Passage, and started specialising in vintage jewellery in 2008. Her collection of hand-picked pieces is grand and glorious; spanning the last 80 years and including gems by Chanel, Givenchy, Nina Ricci, Dior and Trifari. And it’s more affordable than you might think; a set of Christian Dior gold plated earrings and necklace, embellished with Swarovski crystals and accented with jet enamel, is £375, while these exquisite rhodium-plated chandelier drop earrings by Givenchy are £275.

Dior earrings and necklace set, £375, susancaplan.co.uk
Givenchy earrings, £275, susancaplan.co.uk
 

Farfetch also has a brilliantly diverse Pre-Owned section, featuring pieces by everyone from McQueen, Balmain and Cartier to Lanvin and Chanel. Choose subtle earrings to wear down the aisle then swap them for show-stoppers for the party – these Chanel designs are perfect.

 Chanel earrings, £2,181, farfetch.com

Something new: Modern pearls & sparkling gems

If there’s ever an occasion to buy diamonds and pearls, it’s your wedding day. Kiki McDonough has more than three decades of experience in this arena, and her collections strike just the right balance – modern, stylish and the right side of understated. Her pearls are teamed only with white gold, yellow gold and diamonds because these materials “subtly complement rather than detract from the wonderfully distinctive, natural, iridescent sheen”. Opt for discs, knots, flowers, bows or hoops to sit above the pearls, or, if you favour a touch of colour, topaz or amethyst. 

Earrings, £2,500, kiki.co.uk

Newer to the industry but just as enamoured with pearls is Sophie Bille Brahe, a decade into her jewellery business. She trained at London’s prestigious Royal College of Art and crafts her pieces by hand using traditional goldsmith techniques. Her Botticelli earrings, after the artist behind The Birth of Venus, are as beautiful as they are bold.

Sophie Bille Brahe earrings, £1,125, matchesfashion.com

For sparkling gems, look no further than Vashi; we love these Lumina diamond twist hoop earrings for a modern take on exquisite bridal earrings, and the white gold Foundations compass pendant reminds us of beautiful poetry by John Donne. 'If they be two, they are two so / As stiff twin compasses are two; Thy soul, the fixed foot, makes no show / To move, but doth, if the other do.'

Lumina diamond earrings, £1,280, vashi.com
Foundations diamond pendant, £950, vashi.com

Something borrowed: Go big or go home

Just as planet-friendly as vintage jewellery is renting your gems, with the added bonus that you can borrow pieces you’d never even dream of buying. For example – a tiara. Having first been invited to supply jewellery to the Royal Family in the latter years of Queen Victoria’s reign, Bentley & Skinner has a Royal Warrant of Appointment as Jewellers and Silversmiths to Her Majesty the Queen and H.R.H. the Prince of Wales.

Late Victorian tiara, POA, bentley-skinner.co.uk

Its tiara selection is impressive – we love this late Victorian pearl and diamond tiara, set with dozens of pearls and hundreds of diamonds. Like most from that time period, it even converts into a necklace when taken off the frame. Bentley & Skinner's earrings are also exquisite; you can opt for a pair that will look as fantastic on the day itself as they will in the photos you’ll cherish forever.

Edwardian earrings, POA, bentley-skinner.co.uk
Earrings, POA, bentley-skinner.co.uk
 

To note: Items may be hired at a charge of 1% of the retail value plus VAT for every 24 hours. A minimum charge of £100 plus VAT per day is applicable. A full refundable deposit to the retail value of the item in cleared funds is required. It's recommended that customers take out temporary insurance cover.

Something blue: Deep is chic

When it comes to finding your something blue, Net-A-Porter and Matches Fashion have done the hard work for you. Use their filters to narrow down by colour and voila; a gorgeous assortment of blue hues, in every style you might want, from Jade Jagger’s tanzanite and gold drop earrings and Anita Ko’s sapphire heart studs to Lizzie Mandler’s aquamarine and gold necklace.

Jade Jagger earrings, £2,100, matchesfashion.com
Lizzie Mandler necklace, £615, matchesfashion.com
Anita Ko earrings, £2,475, net-a-porter.com
 

Suzanne Kalan’s one-of-a-kind bracelet is decorated with blue sapphires and diamonds in the brand's pretty, scattered Fireworks setting. The eco-conscious, meanwhile, will be pleased to learn that Melissa Joy Manning's sapphire earrings were made by hand in the brand’s Green Certified studio and cast from 14-karat recycled gold.

Suzanne Kalan bracelet, £6,555, net-a-porter.com
Melissa Joy Manning earrings, £365, net-a-porter.com

Bridesmaids: Spoil your best friends

Bridesmaids have a pretty big job, required to do everything from soothing the nerves of an anxious bride to diverting last-minute potential disasters (delayed booze delivery/broken zip/wilting flowers – delete as applicable) as well as being on top form at all times. Thank them for their efforts with a surprise gift of jewellery – necklaces are a brilliant options as no ring fingers need to be measured and you don't have to panic last-minute that she actually doesn't wear stud earrings anymore. Stone & Strand has a beautiful set of 9 carat zodiac charm necklaces with a single diamond – simple and subtle enough to go with any bridesmaid dress, and also lovely for everyday wear after the wedding is over. The label only uses ethically-sourced gemstones.

Stone & Strand Zodiac necklaces, £270 each, net-a-porter.com

We also love Laura Lombardi's Bambola heart collection, if a more obvious show of love is what you're after. Each piece is handcrafted from a mix of new, recycled and reclaimed metals that Lombardi finds on her travels, and most of her pieces are made in New York, where she works with a Brooklyn-based brass mill. 

Laura Lombardi earrings, £150, net-a-porter.com

Mother of the bride: When only diamonds will do

The wedding of your daughter ranks up there among the most exciting of days, and worthy of a magnificent piece of jewellery. You're the mother of the bride; you have earned the right to wear something show-stopping – something that makes your heart sing. Harry Winston is the grand master of wedding-worthy jewels and we love the pieces that combine diamonds with vibrantly coloured gemstones; these earrings feature six round-cut rubies set in the iconic cluster design – particularly lovely for an autumn/winter wedding.

Earrings, POA, harrywinston.com

Likewise, this necklace is really a work of art, with a deep-blue tanzanite stone at its centre, encircled by 12 tsavorite garnets, 21 tanzanites, 36 yellow sapphires and 29 diamonds. Best worn with a block colour, for maximum impact. 

Pendant, POA, harrywinston.com

Wedding guests: Dress it up

Sites like Net-A-Porter, Matches Fashion and Farfetch are brilliant places to discover new designers, and find something suitably spectacular for a big occasion – now is not the time for low-key, delicate pieces. Dress with joy! Lizzie Fortunato does great earrings in colour-popping acrylic or quartz, and newcomer Fry Powers' cool pieces feature hand-applied enamel across statement rings, necklaces and earrings in a spectrum of rainbow hues.

Lizzie Fortunato earrings, £210, matchesfashion.com
Fry Powers earrings, £288, matchesfashion.com

Roxanne Assoulin is also a colour-pop champion. She's no newcomer – aged 63, she has nearly four decades of experience designing for brands like Marc Jacobs and Oscar de la Renta. Her cult jewellery line features lots of colourful enamel tiles and pieces have fun names like Hip Hop But Not and Pearly Whites. 

Roxanne Assoulin bracelet set, £160, net-a-porter.com

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